Submissives Seeking The One

Submissives Seeking The One

Many times I have suggested to submissive males seeking to find The One that that search will be about as fruitful as any search for Mr. Right is--probably not going to be very successful, because you are starting out with an image and perhaps a set of characteristics that prejudge your search.  Fact is, you won't be able to tell if he's the man for you to serve until you start serving him.

Find men in your neighborhood to serve.  Doesn't have to be sexual at all.  Make yourself useful to your male neighbors.  Perform service.  Help out.  When they ask why, just say you enjoy helping out.  Helping out puts you in the place you want to be and puts you in relation to another man.  Some number of them may decide it's safe and enjoyable to use you for other things.

You will probably not find the man you want in a bar.  You might, but I certainly wouldn't limit my search to finding a man to serve by just going to bars.  You may get used occasionally for service, and that's okay I suppose, but the point is to put yourself on the lookout for opportunities to serve men.

Servicing the needs of a man is what turns your crank, if you have slave potential.  It's not that you have to force yourself to offer service; service is something you wish to offer in your very nature as a submissive male.  That doesn't mean you don't value yourself at all; quite the contrary.  But most men do not offer service to other men freely, and you will, so that difference marks you as special and men will pick up on that.

As you get in the habit of offering service to men, you will come across more opportunities and therefore increase the chances you will find a man who will appreciate the service you offer, and that service may well include sexual service.

Most men, especially if they are not queer, are horny virtually all the time, since they do not have women in their lives who offer sex to them at anywhere the level they require and prefer.  Married men are among the most horny--virtually enforced chastity.  Creating situations where they come in contact with you in socially legitimate settings may increase the chances they will use you and may even put you in contact with other men who will use you.  Over time you will develop a keen eye and an appreciation for the real men in your orbit and you make yourself more useful to likely prospects.

There are queer men who may already be in a relationship with an equal, but need a cum dump on a regular basis, either as part of their relationship or as an add-on.  It will be very rare indeed that in a queer couple both partners are mutually satisfied sexually, which is why so often these relationships are sexually "open".  You may be able to function as a slave to a queer couple, providing all sorts of extra service, from cleaning the house, to laundry, to mowing the lawn, cleaning the pool, and also providing some a clean slave hole, or possibly even an animated dildo, for either of the partners to use for his pleasure.

So you may very well find an entirely new way to express your need to offer service rather than just in the way you may have first considered.  Keep open to the many and varied possibilities.  Let your hopeful anticipations be springboards to service rather than excuses for avoiding engagement.

Psychmstr