How do I make contact with a hot Master or Sir on the internet?
Sadly it is the case that many boys and slaves have either forgotten their good manners when making their interest known to a potential Master or Sir, or have simply never learned how, never having met a Sir trained up in the Old Guard leather tradition.
The internet poses some unique protocol issues, it is true, but I have found following one's natural instinct as a submissive, as well as a little common sense, usually suffices to peak a Sir's interest and gets a conversation going.
The very first rule for any submissive is to make certain he has at least one good face picture on his profile.
Additionally he should have some full-body pictures as well, either posted in his gallery, if there is one, or readily available to send to a Sir should he be asked.
Without at least a face picture, a boy is just wasting his time and, more importantly, the more valuable time of a potential Master or Sir, who simply has no patience for such stupid thoughtlessness on the part of a potential.
Besides that, such a boy's behavior just strikes a Sir as annoying. Why would any boy want to annoy a potential Sir? Makes no sense at all, so if you are a boy or slave, don't do it.
At the risk of beating a dead slave, I should point out there are probably more submissives on Recon/WorldLeatherMen without photos than with. Many cruise me, but if they don't have a photo, I don't even read their profiles. What would be the point?
Well, and here is the point. If a sub "cruises" me, how will I know whether to let him approach if I don't even know what he looks like?
Once you have at least a face photo on your profile, and you wish to enter the consciousness of a potential Sir or Master, the first message you should send would ask the man if he would permit you to approach him.
This message should be very simple and straightforward. The salutation would simply read: "Sir," and the body of the message would be the question, "Permission to approach Sir?" You would sign off as either "boy john" or "slave john" or whatever your name is, prefaced by your acknowledgment of what you are, either "slave" or "boy."
A submissive male ALWAYS acts to make a man--Master or Sir--"look good." The very last thing it wants to do is to embarrass a Sir, even inadvertently. Protocol and good manners exist to maintain a Sir's control of the situation, in all cases, under all circumstances. There may be any number of situations where property might approach a Master or Sir at the behest of one's Master, but that that would be another conversation.
Once your Sir of interest gives you permission to approach him, do so with complete respect for his valuable time, and, for Master's sake, get to the point. ALWAYS begin or end a statement while having a Chat with the word "Sir." In a Message, wise submissives express their desire for submission at every turn, beginning or ending each sentence with "Sir."
What the vanilla world may view as fawning servility or pointless flattery, leathermen view as essential and pleasurable ritual and protocol, where Sir and boy begin to establish the structure of their potential relationship. That is part of what I mean by "getting to the point." The point here is that establishing the protocol IS the primary message.
A typical Chat or short Message exchange will doubtless consist of your Sir asking you questions. Two things are important to convey to your potential Sir. You want to make yourself as "transparent" to him as it is possible for you to be, and secondly, convey to him both by how you write and the content of your message that your primary objective is to find a Sir to whom you can submit yourself for his use and pleasure.
If a Sir asks you, for example, whether you like to be fisted, what do you reply if you've never been fisted before or you've had some unpleasant past experiences and have developed fear or dislike of that particular activity?
Be honest and respectful, both of his desire to assess your potential for his pleasurable use of your body and your own feelings of insecurity. If you are a fisting virgin, tell him that. If you've had a bad experience in the past, let him know, but keep it brief. If he wants more information, he will ask.
A submissive alert to the developing subtleties of this dance of courtship (for that is what it is) will also make clear that whatever his fears, he is willing to open himself up and learn to trust his Sir, that he wants to be guided to that place where he has no limits or conditions.
Again, less is more, and, by all means, follow any clues a Sir may provide. Be aware, too, that the more intelligent and experienced a Sir is, the more effectively he will be able to test you.
Remember submissive, a Sir can only control what he knows and understands.
It is your job to give him what he wants, when he wants it, and how he wants it, in every single interaction, for every exchange becomes an opportunity for you to signal your desire and willingness to submit to his control, and to give him another tool through his use of which he is able to exert that control over you that your soul deeply craves.
Psychmstr
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