Re: Submissives Seeking The One

I completely agree with this message!

I too have looked in ABS's, CL, SD and other various ways for hot Daddies to suck and have been successful on occasions.

Not long ago I asked a neighbor to pitch in in order to rebuild a mutual fence between our properties. He quickly agreed since I offered to do all of the labor. As it urned out he also had some work to be done in his yard on a wooden deck and fence. I also agreed to help with that if he would assist.

Submissives Seeking The One

Submissives Seeking The One

Many times I have suggested to submissive males seeking to find The One that that search will be about as fruitful as any search for Mr. Right is--probably not going to be very successful, because you are starting out with an image and perhaps a set of characteristics that prejudge your search.  Fact is, you won't be able to tell if he's the man for you to serve until you start serving him.

The Joy of Rimming

The Joy of Rimming

Of all of the possible sexual acts between two men, I think that rimming is the most intimate and for some, such as myself, the most satisfying. Few pleasures can match the mixture of taste, sensation and emotional experience that is rimming.  In the following paragraphs I will try to explain some of the techniques that I have learned and experiences I have had over more than twenty years of engaging in this pleasure.

Reflections of a Handball Top

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Cleaning out the ass for fisting and fucking

I found this message posted somewhere offering advice for boys new to stretching and opening up their anus to prepare it for fucking, fisting, whatever. It was posted as advice for beginners to anal action.

Treating slaves as property and boybear's responses

Re: My thoughts on treating slaves as property and boybear's responses

Stuart, I am becoming increasingly convinced that there is virtually nothing one can say on the subject of the power-exchange or of slaves, that cannot be easily controverted for the simple reason that each of us is an individual and we experience life differently.

When A Man Uses My Body

When a "real man" uses my body for his lust and pleasure, i know it's going to be a hard-core fuck session - he's fucking me to get his rocks-off and not into some kind of slow and gentle love making.  my legs will spread open and wide for him, completely exposing my ass and ready to suffer the pain of penetration when it spreads and stretches me open to get inside my body.  and i brace myself knowing that total impalement, full measure and balls deep, will be painful. 

When a Master Whips

When a Master Whips
by Master Phillip Moore

If you asked several people you would most likely get more than one answer but this is my take on it.

A guy gets up the courage to approach me and ask to be whipped after watching me work some other guy over.  I have had guys say that they watched for three years and finally got up the courage to approach me.  He may be new to it or an old hand at it and I will ask about his level of experience and think of what I will do. I have him strip naked.

Bootlicking

 Bootlicking by Velas

Mr. Stan, for many of us, as slaves with no rights, we're lucky to simply be addressed in order to carry out a Man's Command.  With no rights, we have no right to contact with the God we call the Master.  His feet are part of Him, of course, and serve Him all day by supporting His weight and carrying Him where He wishes to go, and They are the lowest point of His anatomy and the richest in the sense that They are His contact with the nurturing earth.

Stages of Slave Development

Stages of Slave Development
 by Master Phillip Simpson

I don't see these as stages of slave training.  Not at all.  Rather as the stages of the development of the slave himself from man to slave.  They are not stages of training but rather stages of becoming.

It takes a strong man to be a slave, stronger than those of us who become Masters, I think.  Why?  Because they must break the bonds of how they have been socialized as males and all the the pressure placed on them to be a "man."   Most of us have to fight this struggle once as we come to understand and acknowledge our homosexuality.  A slave, I believe, has to go through this a second time.  As an example, I know of very few Masters who exhibit shame or embarrassment about their need to control another man.  Most slaves I know have, at some point, felt this shame and embarrassment in themselves as they have come to accept their urges and then seek out those who will use them.

How To Edge A Man To Tears

How To Edge A Man To Tears
by John in Baltimore

Here's a step by step guide for a basic edging session to be performed on a
spread-eagled subject. I would be glad to demonstrate on anyone visiting the
Baltimore area and happy to submit to same.

Joy of Servicing Your Man

Okay Sir, one sub's point of view, pun intended.

I like my hairy hard muscled man to lay back naked, pillow behind his head and his hands there too showing me his well muscled arms and body. Knees raised and legs spread with a grin of anticipation on his rugged face, he loves it that I so admire and worship him as my god.

The Skinny on Cash Masters

Is it really news that the internet's social network websites foster dishonesty and fraud?

It is the perfect medium through which to deceive others, since there is no way to detect false claims from true claims.  Anyone can put up any avatar he wishes and can say anything he wishes and pretend to be anyone he wishes and there is nothing anyone can do about that.  This is an enduring fact of on-line social activity.

Who Can I Trust? by Jack Rinella

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Slave Safety (from one slave to its brothers)

SLAVE SAFETY
Advice from one slave to its brothers

1. Until you agree to submit, you are in control of what you do. Every Man you come across who says He is a Master deserves appropriate respect and deference. But simply because He says He is a Master does not mean you owe Him submission. Your submission is a gift. You choose Who to give it to. And until you choose to give it to a Man, you remain in control and should exercise that control — but always with respect and deference.

Signing Over Assets To A Man

DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES "sign over" your assets to someone who has not earned your trust.

I'm not talking days, weeks, or even months here, but a minimum of two years of having a solid, trusting relationship.    If you have many assets I would also consult a lawyer who specializes in personal trusts.  The man should also consult a lawyer in order to draw up needed legal instruments to assure that his property is maintained in the event of his death or other incapacitating event.

Getting a Grip on Yourself

Getting A Grip On Yourself

What is the very worse that can happen?  He can say No.  He can also ignore you.  How very bad can that be?  It will not be the end of anyone's world no matter what he says.

There's an ocean of fish in the sea, so go fishing.  Don't cry about the one that got away.  It is important that boys do not over-dramatize the situation, because investing so much emotion paralyzes.

Contacting a Master on the Net

How do I make contact with a hot Master or Sir on the internet?

Sadly it is the case that many boys and slaves have either forgotten their good manners when making their interest known to a potential Master or Sir, or have simply never learned how, never having met a Sir trained up in the Old Guard leather tradition.

The internet poses some unique protocol issues, it is true, but I have found following one's natural instinct as a submissive, as well as a little common sense, usually suffices to peak a Sir's interest and gets a conversation going.

A Personal Guidebook to Leather by Alex Arthur

A Personal Guidebook to Leather and S/M-01
by Alex G. Arthur


 There seems to be a few questions about Old School S/M rules. These are the very things that were not only told to ME, but in fact flogged into ME. MY trainer DAVID was a stickler for rules, HE followed protocol to the letter and demanded perfection. I know that in today's world having everything in caps is 'shouting'  However, I was trained that it was standard practice for all words pertaining to the MASTER not only to be  in caps, but also in bold type. The latter I have omitted as it's not needed. As for the former, it's against MY nature to do anything against MY training.

Re: No Right to Invidious Discrimination in Public Arena

Steve Temple Tom Anderson unfortunately your argument is flawed at its base, My private business is in my private building that I open to the public for purposes of commerce (just like the muslim or jewish butcher), I refuse service to those imdo not want to do business with, they are free to go and do business with my competitors. If I were a government institution or an institution funded by the government you MIGHT have a point, but I am not. If I choose to not support, promote, or associate with a person or persons it is my right...

No Right to Invidious Discrimination in Publc Arena

In order, short summary responses to various posts on this Facebook link (below):

(1) Queer folk arguably have no more "inferiority complexes" than any other group of people. The only thing that unites queer folk is the obvious hatred and (probable) discrimination that is shown to them by some heterosexual men who are (probably) queer themselves, at least to the degree that they hate in others what they (secretly) hate in themselves. There would be no other reason for the hostility, would there?