Saturday, March 1, 2014

How To Edge A Man To Tears

How To Edge A Man To Tears
by John in Baltimore

Here's a step by step guide for a basic edging session to be performed on a
spread-eagled subject. I would be glad to demonstrate on anyone visiting the
Baltimore area and happy to submit to same.


You will need:

A Blindfold
The Means to tie/secure arms and legs to a bed
A Soft Make-Up Brush
Water-Based Lube
A Spray Bottle with Water
A Towel
A Damp Wash Cloth
A Digital Clock (something easily read by you as you work)
A Vibrator
Poppers (optional, but suggested UNLESS subject is using ED medication)
KY Jelly (optional, for prostate massage, so something thicker than just lube)

1) Have your subject strip off all clothing except his underwear. Once he has
complied, blindfold him and begin a test of his sensitivity by very lightly
placing your finger tips at various points on his body - neck, shoulders, chest,
stomach, back, thighs, calves, feet - and gently dragging them about. You
should apply the lightest touch possible. You may want to test his nipples by
brushing your fingertips over them several times. You will want to tell him to
place his hands on his head, so that you might test the sensitivity of his
underarms
 and don't forget the arms themselves. You may also want to actually
use a tickling motion at various points, but not to elicit laughter. Your
reward for doing this well is a hard dick and hopefully some nice moaning and
groaning. Don't rush through this and don't assume that a spot is not sensitive
after only a few seconds. Linger and tease, linger and tease... until you are
certain you understand your subject's body.

2) Have your subject lay down on the center of the bed. Make sure he is
comfortable, then secure his arms firmly. You don't want to cut off circulation
to his hands with cuffs or knots that are too tight, but you do want to make
sure he cannot free himself. And don't pull his arms so tight he can't shrug
his shoulders a bit... that goes a long way to keeping the blood flowing. As
the scene progresses, take note if he seems to be flexing his hands excessively
and check the temperature of each hand by holding and massaging it. Cold hands
mean loss of circulation.

3) Once your subject's arms are secured, go back to those places on his torso
that got the greatest response and give them extended attention. I particularly
suggest gentle tongue lapping of the nipple and the skin immediately around the
nipple, gentle tickling fingertips in the pits and dragging fingertips up and
down the biceps. Every so often, let you hand move slowly down toward his waist
band, giving him the false hope that you might actually touch his needy cock.
You could also put a hand on his thigh while you lick his chest, perhaps even
tickling at his balls ever so briefly. But NO COCK CONTACT YET. Play about
like this for ten minutes or so and then move on.

4) Careful not to touch his cock with your hands, remove his underwear and
secure his legs. You'll want them as far apart as possible without causing your
subject discomfort. Once secured, give each foot a massage in your warm hands
(I often ask my subject if my hands feel warm and tell him to think about how
warm they will feel on his cock...), after which you may slowly tease up his
legs, giving careful attention to his calves, knees and thighs, until you have
crawled up between his legs. Exhale your warm breath on his balls a dozen or
so times and then very, very, VERY lightly begin tickling his balls. Stay on
them for at least three minutes (in other words, really tease the hell out of
them). You will want to touch his cock very badly... RESIST THE URGE. I like
to keep teasing his balls (and under his balls... and through his pubic bush

and over to his hips
 and down his thighs...) until I get an audible sign that
he is going crazy for his cock to be touched. And then


5) I use a very soft make-up brush, the type that a woman would use to put on
blush, and gently start teasing and dusting and tickling JUST THE LOWER HALF of
his cock shaft. If you don't have such a brush, you can use your fingertips,
but stay away from his cock head until he whimpers with need and frustration. I
use the brush on that lower half of his shaft, on the balls, on his taint, his
thighs, his hips, even on his nipples and stomach and arms
 just about
everywhere but that (usually, by now) dripping cock head. Once I get a little
sincere whimpering and begging, I will use JUST THE BRUSH to begin teasing the
holy hell out of his frenum and his corona. Over and over with just the soft
bristles I will dust and paint his cock head with his own pre-cum! The really
neat thing about this technique is that it keeps making the cock more and more
sensitive without your subject being able to tell, until...

6) Once you feel your subject is truly desperate for some skin-to-skin contact,
you may put away the brush and get your dominant hand well lubed-up. Using your
other, un-lubed hand, grasp the base of your subject's cock between your thumb
and forefinger and use your other fingers to firmly cup his balls. Starting as
far down the staff as possible, grip the cock with your lubed hand and slowly
slide up and off of your subject's cock. Do this a minimum of 50 times, sliding
up and off (that is, stroking in only one direction).

7) Re-wet the cock with the spray bottle and begin to experiment with different
stroking - a backhanded grip, a twisting stroke, an up-and-down stroke, a flat
palm pressed up against just the underbelly of the cock, the soft palm against
just the back of the cock head (careful with this one
 it can really be torture
to a sensitive cock head). The important things to remember at this stage are:
DON'T FLIT AROUND and STROKE VERY SLOWLY. By don't flit around, I mean pick a
different style stroke and stick with it for a while; a good rule of thumb is at
least 50 unchanging strokes before you move on to a different kind of stroke.
Storking very slowly speaks for itself.

NOTE: At this stage, you may actually be getting your subject close to orgasm.
Signs of this would be:

Increased, repetitive hip pumping
Continually flexed ass cheeks
(vs. ass cheeks that flex and relax, flex and relax)
Continually flexed feet and curled toes
Continually clenched fists
The holding of breath
A flush of the face, neck and upper chest
Excessive pre-cum
Increased, sustained rigidity
A flaring of the cockhead

Now is a good time to tell your subject, "You will not cum without permission.
If you feel you are even getting close to cumming, you will tell me immediately.
You will NOT tell me as you begin to shoot. You will ask me for permission long
before the need to shoot. Failure to ask permission may result in some very
intense teasing of your cock head after you cum. Do you understand?"

If you sense or if your subject tells you he is close, stop stroking and move
immediately to the thighs or the arms or the nipples or the pits (wherever your
subject seemed the most erotically charged) and spend some time there.
Alternately, you can stop stroking, count to 30, then begin a slow teasing ball
massage for the next two minutes.

8) After you have had to stop in order to avoid orgasm at least six times, you
may introduce the poppers. After wiping off your hands (the towel and the wash
cloth come in very handy here), hold your subject's head up a bit and pinch off
the opposite nostril, allowing your subject a good snort in each nostril.
Repeat for a second snort in each nostril. The time it takes you to close the
bottle, lube up both hands and get back between your subject's legs is just
about perfect for the poppers to do their work. Before I touch the needy cock,
I generally asked my subject how badly he wants to be stroked "right now," and
describe "how close my slick, warm hands are to your dripping cock." The
poppers make the edging sensations about 10 times more powerful and the effects
last for about five good minutes. Make the most of the slightly less rigid cock
and really twist and wind and tease and massage and work your subject's dick.
If he is anything like my subjects, he will be moaning and gasping and writhing
and cussing... and in total bliss.

9) Once the poppers have worn off (you will be able to tell because your subject
will be far calmer and more docile as he experiences your manipulations), have
fun and play around with speeds and techniques. Give your subject three good
strokes, up and down, then play with his balls for 20 seconds, then three more
strokes and 20 seconds more ball play... over and over. Hold a vibrator at the
base of his cock and slowly move it up to the frenum... then back down, just as
slowly... over and over. Hold that same vibrator against his ass lips as you
tease his cock head. Grease up the forefinger of your non-stroking hand with KY
and gently press and rub at his prostate while you lightly stroke with the other
hand. In other words, edge the poor bastard, until he begs!

10) At this point, you can repeat the poppers, but not until 30 minutes have
gone by since the last snorts. Also, don't go back to the poppers more than
twice, for a total of three time (maybe thrice, for a total of four times).
Once the poppers wear off, go back to edging the poor bastard until he weeps to
be allowed to cum. Then edge him a little more to make sure he's sincere!

11) Finally, when you have decided he has "suffered" enough, set up a nice
steady, medium-speed stroke that goes up and down and up and down until your
subject explodes like a roman candle. After he has cum, continue to stroke his
cock BUT NOT OVER THE SENSITIVE COCKHEAD (unless you're a total bastard) and at
about half the speed. Do this until his power of coherent speech returns!

If you want to find out how I like to take the second load, write to me and tell
me about how you like your body touched, how you like to be edged and just what
I would be playing with if you were under my control. Get me hot enough with
your description and I may just have to visit you! Guys who like to switch and
edge back and forth jump to the head of my line.


--John in Baltimore

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